Article On TamBrahms
Here's an interesting write-up on "TamBrahms" (So-called Tamil Brahmins!) that I came across. Interesting stuff, and surprisingly accurate with a tinge of exaggeration to make it warrant a posting on this blog. Do excuse the spellings & grammar - They have been retained in the original form to retain the colour and spice!
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The below article is in good humour...
Those born and raised outside Tamil Land, some of the Tamil words like "maami " may be confounding, but can guess the meaning from the context.
Centum is of course a Latin word. It is the short form for Centum per Centum (100 out of 100) - Some use the phrase " Cent per Cent". But Tam Brams being very pithy, just stop with "Centum" to mean the same thing!
"YOU graduated in Literature, right?" asked my young cousin. "No, in Economics." I hastily clarified . "Economics honours," I added for good measure. The question coming from anyone else would have been innocuous, but from my cousin who was a third year engineering student, it was almost offending.
As a card carrying member of the Tamilian Brahmin community, or TamBrahms, as the endearment goes, I knew that in his world-- that included his parents, relatives, colony friends, project group, dorm mates--someone who graduated in Literature obviously did so because he or she had a learning disability.
The poor thing was a freak who couldn't get admission into an engineering college or even a pitiful, but definitely more acceptable, science course. Or worse, such a specimen was a wasted wanton whose desire to do B.A was an irresponsible, rebellious act, almost akin to joining a Neo-Nazi like cult group and living on the edge of civilized society.
In any such conversation with a bonafide TamBrahm, I find myself fervently hoping, that despite falling under the horrifying category of B.A Economics, with its connotations of statistics and analysis of numbers and trends, would redeem me a little in their maths-science obsessed eyes. For a TamBrahm family mathematics and science are not merely subjects in the school curriculum. They are a religion. And the dharma of every TamBrahm student is to master them and pave his way to the heavenly portal of an IIT. Or at least to the ordinary portal of a local engineering college, which the family will eventually reconcile to, in the absence of the 'real thing'.
The first time I seriously understood this was when I was in primary school and on one sunny day was gleefully reading out my final exam results to Grandpa who was sitting on the porch and frowning in attention. "English: 90 percent, Hindi: 85 percent, Social Studies:85 percent.." I prattled on. "How much in maths?" interrupted Grandpa.
"Maths: 97 percent," I said grinning widely. "What happened to the remaining marks?" was his unexpected reaction. After which he asked me to fetch the question paper, spent the next two hours going through each problem and figured out where I could have lost the precious three marks.
"Nothing less than a centum in Maths next time." he said finally.'Centum'is a word unique to the TamBrahm world, that a child grows up listening to. It is a figure that even if sometimes elusive, is never lost sight of throughout the academic career. Centum, Maths, Science, Brilliant Tutorials, Engineering, IIT, B.Tech, Computer Science, USA, Financial Aid, I-20, Student Visa, M.S, San Jose, California, Oracle, Microsoft, Intel. These words and names are like carefully arranged furniture in the mental landscape of a TamBrahm boy-and increasingly girl- below the age of 25 Care is taken not to clutter it with anything related to useless stuff like literature, history or art.
Show me a TamBrahm boy who wants to be a fashion designer, VJ, historian or air force pilot and I'll show you something wrong in his blood line. For all such are heathen, a blemish on the fair face of the community. Till about 15 years ago, the only heathens were girls who did not sing. Formidable maamis from the neighbourhood would drop in for a casual afternoon gossip session with grandmom and on espying any hapless young girls in the vicinity, would pounce on them with the dreaded entreaty, "Oru paatu paadein." (Sing a song). A simple three word sentence, you would think, but in maamiland it is a deceptively camouflaged barometer of the girl's cultural grooming and readiness for TamBrahm society (read marriage market) and her mother's efforts in making her a fine Tamilian lady.
A TamBrahm girl's singing talents always have to be on standby, as they could be called upon by anyone no matter what the time of day, nature of the occasion or profile of the audience, by simply uttering the three powerful words, "Oru Paatu Paadein." And woe betide the girl who in shameful ignorance, takes the words at face value. When the words were uttered by a visiting neighbour, I readily accepted and joyously broke into a popular Hindi film ditty. I had finished the second paragraph when I stopped to check audience response. My mother had a strained, embarrassed smile on her face, grandmom was scowling hard, an aunt hurriedly excused herself and went inside and the venerable neighbour looked so disturbed, I thought she was on the verge of a heart attack."Well..that was nice, but don't you sing any varnams or keerthanais?" she finally asked, after an awkward silence. My mother hurriedly explained how in the culturally bereft North we were unable to locate a Carnatic music teacher nearby...but hopefully by this summer she would manage to do something about it. That's when I realized that the only music that was expected to pour out of your mellifluous throat where classical Carnatic songs. If you didn't know any, you simply shut up and ducked out of sight of visiting maamis. And if like me, you are a non-engineer-non-Carnatic-trained loser of a TamBrahm, you should be drowning yourself in a drum full of idli batter for having wasted this lifetime.
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